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This has got to stop!

16/09/2019 by Ruth Holroyd 10 Comments

And it has to stop now! How are we still hearing about deaths from allergies when all the right questions have been asked, yet still people are served foods that contain the very allergen they’ve specifically informed staff they’re allergic to?

If you work in a restaurant and you get asked about the presence of allergens, please only answer if you 100% know the answer. Don’t guess, because the results can and are disastrous.

In intensive care after allergic reaction to undeclared dairy
In intensive care after allergic reaction to undeclared dairy

Thank you BBC for raising this

An article just published on the BBC website this morning hits the mark. What can restaurants do help customers with allergies?

Thank you Mary O’Connor for being so kind and understanding when interviewing me.

Because we need to start talking about solutions, not continuing to hear about another death, and another death, and another death, with seemingly nothing changing in between and no lessons learnt.

The article talks about a new app called Menu Guide which could really help restaurants and customers have the information they need at their fingertips, when they need it.

I am so proud to be featured in this article because the consequences of not taking allergies seriously are only too common to me. In November last year I was served a meal with so much dairy in it I had to spend the night in intensive care. This was despite letting them know online, visiting in person before the day, reminding them on arrival and numerous questions during the evening as the food just didn’t look right.

The picture above was taken at Watford General where I spent the night in intensive care, finally being well enough to go home the following day.

It brings it all back when I hear about another death…

Another tragic death at Byron

Again last week we read about the tragic death of Owen Carey who died after being served a burger which contained undeclared buttermilk.

Why did no one check? Why did staff not understand that buttermilk contains milk? I’m not sure how you can make that mistake… it’s pretty obvious. It makes me so angry because this has happened to me too on too many occasions. I can’t survive another reaction. I fear the next time will kill me. This is the reason that Owen’s parents and the rest of the allergy community think that current laws are too lax. Restaurants can rely on a verbal communication, but this allows far too much room for mistakes.

I think it has to be in writing. Otherwise it can never be safe. Staff need allergen training but they also need to be able to check quickly and easily and customers need that reassurance, because most of us have had our trust well and truly smashed by restaurants like Byron who don’t take their customers safety seriously.

You can read more in the articles below…

Byron Burger Allergy Death: Owen Carey’s parents demand law change.

This next article explains Byrons proceedures, and they state that the company is acting within the law… I would argue not, and have myself left Byron burger when I’ve not been able to get a full list of ingredients, nor the assurance that my meal will be safe. Turns out my fears were not misguided: Allergic teenager who died was misled about Byron burger – coroner says

Thank you Sirin and the Guardian

By far the best article I’ve read in a long time, Eating that meal could kill you, when chefs don’t take allergies seriously... is a fantastic, well researched piece with so many case studies. I kept thinking I’d finished reading and then there was another person who had their story to tell. I would like to personally thank Sirin Kale and the Guardian for continuing to give allergies their place in the media and to help raise awareness.

Even relatives test allergies are real

What’s upsetting about this article is that even the parents, relatives and friends of people with allergies are not taking them seriously. This is just unacceptable and so worrying. Please, please people. Allergies are real. If this is really happening, how long before we have of the first allergy death after a relative “tested how serious their allergy was”? If this is you, shame on you.

Thank you all…

And so I want to thank everyone who is taking allergies seriously. To my friends and family who are my warriors, my second pair of eyes and who make my life so much easier. Thank you to the amazing restaurants who do provide full allergen information. Who understand that for themselves and their customers it can only be in writing. Verbal is not enough.

Finally, make sure you listen to my new Allergy Podcast… Allergy Today. We discuss this subject on numerous episodes because we all feel that eating out is the hardest part of living with life threatening allergies. Tune in to find out more. Episode four comes out this Thursday!

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Filed Under: Anaphylaxis Tagged With: allergies can kill, anaphylaxis deaths, death from anaphylaxis

About Ruth Holroyd

Author of 'Anaphylaxis: The Essential Guide: An Action Plan For Living With Life-Threatening Allergies' and 'The Shape of Skin, both available as paperback or Kindle on Amazon. Ruth is a Writer, Blogger and Patient Expert in allergies, asthma, anaphylaxis, eczema and topical steroid withdrawal.

Comments

  1. C hellawell says

    16/09/2019 at 1:54 pm

    I totally agree, though I play safe and eat only
    One restaurant and that is in Lindos.
    Shame I am not trusting in UK.
    So I only eat my own cooking, which at times gets very boring. Better safe than sorry.
    I also double check with manufacturers of prescribed medicines.
    After ending in AE after taking antibiotics
    The old saying buyer beware

    Reply
    • Ruth Holroyd says

      16/09/2019 at 2:31 pm

      Hi C, and thanks for your comment. I too prefer eating at home, just because I don’t have to muster my reserves, be brave, be strong and go through the military planning. I actually love cooking and am trying to experiment so I don’t get bored with my cooking. Where is the restaurant you refer to? It has so hard to trust. I have a few faithful restaurants but am very careful. Scary reacting to antibiotics. Stay safe and keep talking about allergies.

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  2. Deborah says

    16/09/2019 at 2:23 pm

    I feel that the restaurants should be held accountable when a person has expressed their reasons for not eating a food type or other as it could be literally a ‘life or death’ situation.

    Perhaps jail sentences and an instant closure of the business and to no longer permit food owners who are not acting according to never trade again.

    Each business serving food needs a comprehensive food guide on line with ALL ingredients listed with immediate affect.

    It is not acceptable for anyone to die when he or she has openly questioned and made the eaterie aware of their requirements.

    Reply
    • Ruth Holroyd says

      16/09/2019 at 6:06 pm

      I agree, but it happens. It’s happened to me both here in the UK and in the US which has much worse laws than us. A lot needs to change but I agree, there should be more prosecutions because so many accidents happen that don’t result in death and restaurants just get away with this. Too many deaths and things don’t seem to change. It makes me so angry and so scared of eating out. There are very few places that I trust.

      Reply
  3. jacquie broadway says

    16/09/2019 at 2:26 pm

    I only eat out, which is very rarely because I am too frightened.. I always inform people in advance with a list of foods I can eat and not eat, with details of where dangers lie. We cannot expect the general public to be sufficiently trained in allergy.The government’s list and attitude is woefully inadequate. Why do they allow so many allergens to be used in drugs? We are all individuals with different reactions. Training needs to start with the medical profession who are also insufficiently trained, often not at all..

    Reply
    • Ruth Holroyd says

      16/09/2019 at 2:34 pm

      Hi Jacqui, a agree we have a long, long way to go. We can only hope to achieve this by talking, and keeping on talking and educating. I don’t know much about allergens in drugs.. but people can be allergic to anything so the list of 14 allergens often doesn’t go far enough for sone. America have a list of the top 8 so we are way ahead of them in that respect. Keep vigilant and stay safe. Where are you located Jacqui? If I know any good restaurants I’ll let you know.

      Reply
      • jacquie broadway says

        16/09/2019 at 2:46 pm

        Thank you Ruth, I live near Mdihurst. My best eatery is my daughter and a divine 5 star hotel in Dorset where I have been for many years when I cam afford it! The problem with drugs is they so often contain CORN STARCH and sucrose. No flu vaccine for me, just read what is in it. I react to a skin test.

        Reply
        • Ruth Holroyd says

          16/09/2019 at 4:15 pm

          Ah corn starch, not one of the top 14 and yes… used in so many things. That must be tough to avoid. Dorset is a beautiful part of the world but I don’t know the area. sorry!

          Reply
          • jacquie broadway says

            16/09/2019 at 10:08 pm

            No worry. Please continue your publicity Just to say, my GP, a nice man, recently said the NHS does not cater fro people like you. How true, but we need help from much more training..

          • Ruth Holroyd says

            17/09/2019 at 2:54 pm

            Your GP actually said that? Oh dear…

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