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Reframing skin flares as healing

24/03/2022 by Ruth Holroyd 2 Comments

This applies to anyone going through topical steroid withdrawal really as skin flares can signify issues, triggers, allergies or stress that needs to be addressed. But if you’re going through TSW the flares are probably often just skin your healing.

It can feel like a constant attack, like it’s never ending and the flares just keep coming. That’s because they do, when you’re healing. And it’s a great sign, the healing cycles go from inflammation and itching to excessive flaking when your skin is healing.

Reframing skin flares as skin healing

Is it a skin flare and what’s causing it?

I hear people often saying, “My skin is flaring again.” or questioning what has caused their latest flare.

With TSW it’s often so random and isn’t caused or triggered by anything. Although of course it can be if you have allergies and sensitivities that you’ve not uncovered or which have just begun during withdrawal. Therein lies the complex and frustrating relationship with skin when it’s inflamed and healing.

For me, during my TSW journey my skin has ‘flared’ almost every week and often every day in some shape of form, from more severe to much milder inflammation and flaking.

Check out The Healing Crisis – why it gets worse before it gets better.

What is the TSW healing cycle like?

I think this may vary between people, but mine go like this:

  • Inflammation, redness, swollen skin that is very itchy. In worst cases can also ooze or be damp.
  • Extreme pain, deep grooves that have nerve pain, insomnia.
  • Crusting and excessive flaking. This can be anything from thick crunchy flakes to smaller finer flakes in a milder healing crisis.

And this cycle has repeated on an endless, exhausting loop throughout my TSW healing journey so far. Sometimes it can go from inflammation and itching to the shedding flake off phase in the same day! It’s incredible how the skin can proliferate like that so fast.

It’s been pretty intense since October 2021 but I feel like as Spring and Summer approach the warmer weather seems to signal some relief in my healing

Believing you’re healing

Having a positive mindset has really helped me through my topical steroid withdrawal journey. At first I kept setting fake deadlines in my heard, targets by which I expected to heal by. Then when that didn’t happen I would begin to doubt. I would lose hope and start to feel negative, like I’m doing something wrong or not doing enough to aid my skin healing.

Now I am learning to use different language. When I talk to myself now I say things like:

  • I will heal when my body is ready
  • I have everything within me to heal and I am healing every day
  • My skin knows how to heal itself

You have to accept what is happening, let go and dive in. Just go with the flow, the ups and downs and the healing crises (formerly known as skin flare ups) and learn to sit with the discomfort.

This is something that was really brought home to me during recent hypnotherapy and regression therapy. The meditations that were provided for me by my hypnotherapist focuses on these mantras, that we are worthy of healing and will heal.

What if I don’t heal?

What if my skin doesn’t heal from topical steroid withdrawal? Would I be OK with that? If you can learn to love yourself and find happiness even through pain and inflammation you are also healing deeper traumas.

Many people live with permanent skin differences, scars and conditions that can never be changed or healed. They are worthy of love, empathy and kindness. Learning to show that same love for yourself, your skin and your own body as it goes through this traumatic transformation is humbling.

#skinpositivity

There is a whole movement online of the skin positivity community. People with conditions like Treacher Collins that affects how the face is formed, those with acne, psoriasis, burns survivors and many more. In a world where we are often instantly judged by our outward facial appearance it can be hard to accept things if you’re not happy with them.

Check out this blog, “Let’s stop eczema bullying.” to find out how Jono Lancaster stays positive despite his facial differences

I’m learning to be at peace with my skin as it is today. My quality of life is pretty good; I can run, walk regularly, love yoga, have amazing friends and family who I enjoy spending time with. I am still working, part time with flexible hours, writing and blogging. I have so very much to be grateful for and practise regular gratitude journaling and guided mindful meditations. I find this brings me back to the present, helps me see how lucky I am and shows me how much I have.

Behaving as if you’re healed

.Another thing that is helping me is to kind of pretend I’m feeling better than I am and start planning for stuff, even on a day when I’m in pain and want to hide away. By doing this I’ve begun to embrace life more and get back out into the community again. I started booking meals out, accepting invitations, going to parties and nothing bad happened. Occasionally I was very uncomfortable, itched ferociously and was desperate to get home. But more often I was OK, and more than that, I loved being back out there.

It’s also OK to cancel if you are really struggling. Learning what your boundaries are and when you need to really rest is part of the process. Your friends and family will understand.

Don’t put your life on hold

There is a tendency to stop doing what is painful and isolate, Covid has cemented that as normal for us. Putting life on hold until we are truly healed. But what will healed look like? For instance I’ve put off dating because of my appearance, when actually if I met the right person that shouldn’t matter at all. I’ve put off buying new clothes and bedding because I just keep messing them up with the emollients I’m wearing that stain things, blood stains, and rips from scratching through the fabric. Something I’m going to start doing is to push these things.

Knowing when to push and when to rest

This month I’m having a massive declutter of all the messed up clothing and plan to buy some new items – carefully chosen – to be part of a new smaller capsule wardrobe. I have so much, stuff I never wear.

As for the bedding – that’s expensive so I’ll scuzz up these ones with the zinc cream for a while longer.

The dating can wait though. I’m happy with my decision to focus on myself at the moment. I have so much going on that I have very little time and room in my life for someone else. Time will tell though, maybe I’ll meet someone normally but for now, I’m happy with concentrating on healing.

It’s also OK to know when to say no, when to rest and take time to be on your own and do the things you love. Finding the right balance can be hard to do but in time it gets easier.

How’s your skin healing journey going? Are you struggling to stay positive? What do you do that helps you?

You may also be interested in reading:

  • The Shape of Skin – Eczema poetry book for healing skin
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  • Positive Affirmations for your skin

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Filed Under: Eczema, Topical Steroid Withdrawal Tagged With: believe you are healing, healing topical steroid withdrawal, healing TSW, reframing skin flares as healing, skin healing in TSW, skin positivity, TSW skin healing cycle

About Ruth Holroyd

Author of 'Anaphylaxis: The Essential Guide: An Action Plan For Living With Life-Threatening Allergies' and 'The Shape of Skin, both available as paperback or Kindle on Amazon. Ruth is a Writer, Blogger and Patient Expert in allergies, asthma, anaphylaxis, eczema and topical steroid withdrawal.

Comments

  1. Laura says

    13/04/2022 at 7:48 pm

    Finally!! I have found someone who is experiencing what I am experiencing. I used a grade IV topical steroid in my ears on and off for most of the past year. I am just starting my journey of withdrawal. My ears are in agony, as is most of my inflamed face!! My ear eczema was never, ever as bad as this withdrawal! Thank you for your blogs. I will look for you on Instagram.

    Reply
    • Ruth Holroyd says

      14/04/2022 at 12:36 pm

      Oh I feel your pain. My ears were terrible, yet I think I had an ear infection once that I suspect they gave me steroid ear drops for. I had to get mind unblocked professionally about 3 times as I just couldn’t hear, they got so blocked up with TSW skin and ooze. This old blog might help https://whatallergy.com/2019/05/10-tips-to-treat-blocked-ears-eczema-tsw/ as I did find a few things that eased things. And this one from when I used apple cider vinegar. A bit fiddly and messy trying out things like tea tree and ACV but natural and will hopefully bring you some relief https://whatallergy.com/2020/02/apple-cider-vinegar-to-clear-blocked-ears-due-to-tsw/ Good luck and stay in touch!

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